Hot dating games to play
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. Then proceed to ravish him — slowly, recklessly, teasingly — however you feel like doing it. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac (maybe you've heard of You need: Four neckties, or more elaborate restraints available at sex-toy stores or online; a bed, preferably one with bedposts.You get really creative and You need: A scarf, necktie, or a blindfold. How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator. Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors, even on your own patio.You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream. Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin. Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas.Why: It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.Variation: If you don't have bedposts, you may be able to tie your wrists to some part of your headboard or tie them together over your head or behind your back.What You Need: A hat (or small jar or bowl), small pieces of paper, and a pen How to Play: Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position.
Why: Cadell believes that creating these new memories with sex games will make you associate fun times in your marriage with intercourse. How to play: Have your dude either lie back or kneel with his eyes closed and mouth open.Be careful when shaving parts you cannot see (this is what mirrors are for).Also, once you've shaved, decorating yourself with the edible treat of his choice — whipped cream, warmed fudge sauce, frozen orange-juice concentrate — can be fun. The other is going to teach him or her how it's all done.You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed.You need: A hairbrush, riding crop, or just his hands.